Secrets of a Marriage Where Love Flowed As Strong As An Ocean Wave

January 11, 2011

A Guest Post by Ernie McCray
I see before me photographs of a sprinkling of my wife’s ashes soaking in the sand along the shore in Malibu as the tide rolls in and then recedes carrying her ashes out to sea – while waves of precious memories of a wonderful joyful exciting thirty-four years of my [...]

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A Year In Review: Highlights To Launch You Into a New Beginning

December 31, 2010

A New Beginning
A new beginning involves reflecting back as we move forward. This post is dedicated to YOU, my readers, as we gather resources from the past to propel us forward into a new beginning. That’s what a New Year is all about.  It’s symbolic of a new beginning.
Today we’ll reflect back upon this [...]

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Start Your New Year with Attitude: A Day Above Ground Is Good

December 27, 2010

The last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. – Dr. Viktor E. Frankl
Best Relationships Ever – and the possibility of the best year ever – has a lot to do with ATTITUDE.  Attitude, how you view things, has everything to do [...]

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Don’t Ask Don’t Tell: The Lie Is Over

December 19, 2010

The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people. ~
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Today is a momentous day in the history of our country.   We have chosen to uphold justice and inclusiveness, rather than oppression and hatred.   We have chosen [...]

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Holiday Advice 101: Grant Me The Balls To Change The Things I Can

December 13, 2010

A Holiday Serenity “Prayer”
I’ve come up with a new serenity prayer just for the holidays:
Grant me the balls to change the stressful things I can, and the stamina to face the relatives once again!
You and I know holidays aren’t always chestnuts roasting on an open fire, mistletoe, and singing carols around the hearth while sipping [...]

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Is Your Relationship Sex Deprived?

December 6, 2010

Sex Is Good For You
Are you sex deprived?  If so, why?
Sex is the thing that differentiates a romantic partnership from friendships.  And it’s good for you!  So, why are so many relationships sex deprived?
5 Reasons Why You’re Not Having Sex
Here are 5 reasons why you may not be having sex:

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1 Thing You Can Do Today To Feel Great

November 28, 2010

Feel Good Now
I want to tell you one thing YOU CAN DO TODAY that will make you feel GREAT!
My inspiration for this post came from a newspaper article I read about a man who traveled all over the country and globe to talk with people who inspired him in his life.  A former CEO, Walter [...]

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