Mentoring

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Hello, and welcome to my mentoring program pages. I’m excited to work with you as you make a commitment to take your life to the next level of personal growth and transformation!

My strong desire and intention is to help you let go of areas that are causing pain and assist you to feel greater happiness and joy, both in your relationship with yourself and others.

My areas of expertise include learning to love your body, loving your self, and developing loving relationships.

I have extensive experience in the addictions arena as well, working with families and partners of those suffering from addictions.

My expertise covers a broad spectrum and it is likely I can help you with whatever issues you may be facing.

The direction we take depends upon your specific questions and issues. The intention is to help you feel relief in any area you may feel stuck or pain.

Not A Quick Fix Approach

My style of working is not a “quick fix” approach. If you want to try that route, there are many people out there willing to assist you.

A core belief I operate from is that change in your outer life occurs naturally when you change your perspective in regards to any issue or problem you are facing.

I will help you examine “your story” about any issue you are facing.

Your story – daily story you tell yourself – is what prevents you from having what you want in any area of your life.

Your story might be about yourself or others, probably both. For example, you may have a story about your value as a person or your ability to have what you want, or your ability to connect with others. It may be about your ability to change.

Dear Lauren,

After finishing reading your Amazing e-book, I feel so enriched by your program. It’s such a sensible, holistic approach which is generating more self-love and spilling out to my loved ones too.

Reading your book opened doors for me, even though I’ve read shelves of “self-help” books in my time!
When the student is ready the master appears…

with so many thanks,
Lisa

1. Loving Yourself

• Do you experience feelings of emptiness or loneliness?
• Do you feel inadequate?
• Do you feel isolated and wish you had better skills to relate with others?
• Or maybe your life is working on many levels and yet you know that you somehow could feel even better?
• Do you need to boost your self-esteem?
• Feel more confident in a particular area of your life?

Or, you may just want to deepen your relationships with friends, a significant other, or find a romantic partner. Yet, you don’t quite feel you’ve been successful in these attempts.

In my mentoring program, I always approach change from the inside out. We take a look at how your beliefs about yourself and relationships impact your experiences. We can then use tools to help you create change.

Tools That Help You Get Unstuck

The good news is there are many tools available these days to facilitate your personal transformation. The core ingredient, though, is YOU.

Change requires a decision, an intention, a commitment to your own well-being. I will be here to guide and assist you through your process.

I have a request of you. My desire is to work with individuals who are ready to make changes in their lives. While “quick fixes” sound appealing, I believe real change comes from the inside out. While you may experience rapid change in some areas, other problems may take time.

My style is to focus on the solution rather than the problem . While I want to know “your story”, that is, the way you are viewing a situation that keeps you stuck or in pain, my intention is to move you through it and into a new viewpoint that will help you experience a breakthrough in whatever area it is that you feel stuck.

While that may feel harsh, dwelling on the problem does NOT create change. A new perspective is what creates change. In order to feel better, you need to tell yourself a new story. And that is where I enter the picture – or story, if you will. I will help you create that new story!

If you are willing to try my approach and are willing to go inside and engage in a process of self-examination, then move forward, it is likely we are a good match and I’d love to work with you.

I will help you create a new paradigm, a new way of viewing your situation. A way that is more empowering and provides an opportunity for greater happiness.

Change is a process. I’d like you to be aware that sometimes we take a couple steps forward and then step backwards. I’m not into the rose-colored glasses syndrome.

Authenticity, being who you are and where you are at any given moment, is where it’s at. I will meet you where you are at and accept you in that place. Where you are is alright with me. I am confident that I can provide you with a safe landing place. From this place, we can get down to it and have an exciting adventure together!

Click one of the following links to work with me.

Level I: E-Mail Packages
Level II: Instant Messaging
Level III: Phone Consultation
Level IV: Video Consultation

Let’s get started on your path to greater insight and joy today!

2. Love Relationships

Love relationships are perhaps the most mysterious of all. They cover the full spectrum and take you to the highest peaks of joy as well as the depths of pain and sorrow.

• How can you enjoy the most mutually uplifting and supportive relationship you’re capable of?
• Have you yearned for love and yet find yourself involved in less than satisfying relationships? Relationships in which you don’t feel seen or heard?
• Do you repeat the same pattern over and over, in essence choosing the same person?
• Do you find yourself longing for love and yet not believing it’s possible?
• Do you find yourself clumping all men or women into a category – for example ALL men are…or ALL women are…?

If so, your story about the opposite sex (or if you’re in same sex relationships this applies as well) is preventing you from experiencing great relationships.

We all have a story about relationships. Your story may be keeping you in a disempowered state and preventing you from having the quality relationship you long for.

The Most Painful Place To Be

Do you find yourself discouraged, longing for love yet no longer believing it’s possible? If so, you are experiencing “the split”.

I discovered the split as a result of the date that changed my life forever.

My Discovery Can Change YOUR Life

Since discovering “the split” I have a unique approach that will give you an inside view into relationships and will change how you view relationship forever.

The Split places you in a bind. You want love but are discouraged or maybe even bitter and you no longer believe it’s possible. How painful is this. Maybe YOU know this feeling first hand.

The basis of the split is FEAR.

Whether you are dating or in a relationship, you will learn to understand that much of your behavior, and that of your potential partners or partner, is based on fear. We will examine your fears and come to understand the fears of potential partners.

Knowing that many behaviors are motivated by fear helps us to have greater compassion, both for ourselves and others.

The Core Of My Work

Working with the split offers an inside view into what keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns that prevent us from having the love we deeply desire.

The core of the “work” is helping you to heal this split – to restore your belief in love and life! As you begin to heal, you will notice that you attract a different quality person into your life.

What I Can Do For You

Love is possible and ever present awaiting your arrival! Perhaps you have heard that if you want a relationship you need to be the person you’d always hoped existed.

What does this mean? It means we are seeking something outside ourselves that actually needs to be generated from the inside out! I hope you become excited by this.

Why? Well, by now you may be getting the drift: YOU are the only thing you have power to change. And guess what, when YOU change your world changes.

Have you heard the saying that you train others to treat you by your agreement field? What is an agreement field? An agreement field is like an invisible energy around us. We give off subtle cues that others pick up on that tells them how to treat us.

As you become more healthy and feel more deserving of a great relationship, as you learn more effective tools for relating, your “agreement field” will change. You will no longer attract the same person over and over.

As you may notice, I am not into quick fix dating rules or tactics you can use to “catch” a partner. My approach is about healing from the inside out.

I believe we attract people to us according to who we are and how we feel INSIDE. The outside is a reflection of the inside. While you may experience results quickly, some changes may take more time.

If you want to change the quality of your romantic relationships, you must build a foundation inside that creates a sense of worthiness.

Self-exploration and self-awareness provide a foundation upon which you can build healthier relationships.

I will provide tools that will help you create a paradigm shift, claiming your personal power. Empowering you to realize there is never a lack of love. In order to have love you need to BE love.

Know this, LOVE IS NOT A COMMODITY THAT IS IN SHORT SUPPLY. Love is not a thing, it is an energy. And in case you haven’t noticed, love is not reserved for only the thin or beautiful.

I will assist you to view relationship from a whole new perspective. A perspective that can provide a foundation to change your relational life dramatically.

Restore your belief in yourself and in love and life.

Click one of the following links to work with me.

Level I: E-Mail Packages
Level II: Instant Messaging
Level III: Phone Consultation
Level IV: Video Consultation

Let’s get started on your path to greater insight and joy today!

3. Loving Your Body: The Vision For You and Your Body

I have a vision for you! My vision is that the time is now for you to free yourself of the chains of misery, criticism, and pain you feel about your body.

It is likely that your criticism of your body is so typical that you have learned to operate with it as a given in your life!

Why is this?

Women criticizing and disliking their bodies is a rampant epidemic in our culture (and many so-called civilized cultures in the world).

Is This You?

• Do you feel embarrassed or ashamed about your body?
• Do you feel inadequate because you don’t believe your body is “good” enough?
• Do you limit any activities because you are ashamed of the way you look?
• Have you been on the merry-go-round of diets, exercise, and weight loss programs only to find yourself right back where you started?
• Do you feel discouraged about your self-perception of your body?

If so, you are not alone. You don’t need to spend your life in pain about your body. There is a way out!

Tools to Bring You Greater Happiness

• You will learn to take inspired action rather than forced action
• You will come to value your body more, you will WANT to treat it better.
• You will learn the tools to befriend your body.
• You will learn to work with your body, not against it! It can then work more effectively for you to maintain health!

A Unique and Cutting Edge Approach

My approach is UNIQUE and CUTTING EDGE and will provide you with a whole new way of viewing your body! You will not find this information anywhere else.

My techniques and tools are designed to create change from the inside out – the only change that lasts.

Radical Transformation: Heal Your Relationship With Your Body & Become Part of a New Paradigm

Are you ready to become part of a NEW PARADIGM? A “paradigm shift” involves a change in perspective. A change that will bring you to a whole new place about how you feel about your body! That place is FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOUR BODY.

Imagine the change in your life that can result from actually feeling good about your body!

A change in perspective about your body can enable you to experience a RADICAL TRANSFORMATION in your life.

You can learn a new way with my unique and cutting edge approach that allows you to free yourself of the feelings of low self-esteem and inadequacy – you can experience joy and appreciation for your body that you never dreamed possible.

Dear Lauren,

A strong instinct told me this was important information, and having read 2/3 of it, I can attest that it is having a powerful effect.

By the way, this is the first product of its kind I’ve ever ordered for myself online…I was so moved by your story and your genuineness.

As feedback I would love to share that when I read the section on your lack of interest concerning the reader’s “stories,” I totally got your point and I felt a sort of instant clean-slate reaction as if suddenly my background was completely irrelevant. WOW, it was like a psychic cleansing. I can’t wait to get back to your book tomorrow.

Lisa

I know first hand this works because I developed this program as a result of a personal experience I had. I developed this program when the person I was in love with told me he was no longer attracted to me because of my weight gain.

Although I initially felt ashamed and humiliated, I found my way out. I decided to find a way to fall in love with my body and I did.

That is how this program began. I could have slinked away in shame and embarrassment and licked my wounds. But, had I done this, nothing would have changed!

Instead I developed a method to fall in love with my body and my life changed dramatically as a result. That “method” is the program I developed called Fall In Love With Your Body Now.

I will never view my body in the same way again! I have fallen in love with my body and you can too! What I’ve developed is a roadmap that others can use to achieve the results I’ve experienced.

During our mentoring relationship together I will share with you tools from the program and address your specific concerns and issues. I have confidence that these tools will work for you as they have for me.

You don’t have to remain in pain about this core issue. You can experience the freedom that comes from feeling good about your body.

Click one of the following links to work with me.

Level I: E-Mail Packages
Level II: Instant Messaging
Level III: Phone Consultation
Level IV: Video Consultation

Let’s get started on your path to greater insight and joy today!

Loving Your Body is THE Foundation for a Happy Life!

I provide tools that will help you to re-frame your entire viewpoint about your body. I know the difference it can make in how you feel about yourself. Your appreciation for your body will grow exponentially.

As a result, you begin to feel better about yourself in general. Your relationships can blossom as a result of your new found confidence in yourself.

My Approach is Unique & Builds a Foundation for Inspired Action

Programs based on exercise and diets alone are ineffective in the long run because you are taking forced action rather than inspired action. Inspired action results in long-lasting change. Forced action never does.

My program is exciting and provides a fresh approach.

Join The Movement To Fall In Love With Your Body Now and take the step to empower yourself and change the way you feel about your body forever – the foundation for experiencing an improved relationship with yourself and others.

The Common Denominator

YOU are the common denominator in all your relationships.

The foundation for all relationships is your relationship to yourself. While this may sound boring to you, it is actually incredibly exciting!

Why? Because you are the one thing in life you have the power to change!

If you want to improve your relationship with yourself or others, the best way to begin is by INTEGRATING yourself. Change occurs from the inside out!

My Programs Are NOT a Cookie Cutter Approach

My mentoring packages are designed to provide individual attention for those of you who would like to explore any of the above topics or concerns. I will address YOUR specific issues. This is NOT a “cookie-cutter” program.

Introductory packages provide an opportunity to address a particular question or issue at a low cost. It also provides the chance for you to see whether you feel it would be beneficial for you to immerse yourself more deeply.

My areas of expertise include body issues (learning to love your body), loving your self, and developing loving relationships. I have extensive experience in the addictions arena as well. Since this covers a broad spectrum, it is likely I can help you move beyond whatever issues you may be facing.

You will receive psychosocial education in the process of working with me. Psychosocial education involves becoming more conscious and aware of your own unique internal processes. We will explore how this affects your relationship with yourself, your interactions with others, and your personal relationships. The direction we take depends upon your specific needs and issues.

Keep in mind there are many tools available these days to facilitate your personal transformation. The core ingredient, though, is YOU. It requires a decision, an intention, a commitment to your own well-being. I will be here to guide and assist you through your process.

My approach involves building a more empowered foundation, helping you to strengthen at the core. I will guide you to a more authentic life, embracing who you truly are and who you want to become.

Life is a process. I can assist you in this journey of life and provide the tools that will enable you to develop your own individual process by helping you assess where you are and what you need to move toward.

It is NOT about a final destination, but rather shifting your perspective and creating new paradigms, to include new ways of viewing life. As you change, you will notice your life taking a new shape and it will change with you.

You will be given information that provides the opportunity for you to expand in ways that encourage you to feel better about you, about your relationships, and about life in general.

I am excited to show you how to experience more joy and pleasure in your life. Over many years I have explored and developed a wide range of tools for transformation. I have used these tools in my own life and I am happier today than ever before.

This doesn’t mean life is perfect, but rather that I am eager to wake up each day and participate in creating a great life for myself, moment by moment. And this is what I want for you! The process allows for “bad hair days” and for being real with where you are in any given moment, yet the “prize” is that you will have tools to access healthier relationships in all areas of your life.

Keep your eye on the prize!

Mentoring Packages

I provide four levels of personal mentoring. This provides a broad spectrum from which to choose. All my mentoring relationships are developed to meet your personal needs.

Click one of the following links to work with me.

Level I: E-Mail Packages
Level II: Instant Messaging
Level III: Phone Consultation
Level IV: Video Consultation

Let’s get started on your path to greater insight and joy today!